02/18/12 4:30pm

The Shelter Island Office of Senior Services encourages our senior residents to take advantage of one of the many programs available to us from the Suffolk County Office for the Aging: EISEP (Expanded In-home Services for the Elderly Program). This program is designed to help seniors remain independent in their own homes for as long as possible.

Some of the services provided by EISEP are housekeeping chores (vacuuming, dusting and laundry), meal preparation and shopping on behalf of the senior. Trained aides can be made available as needed.

Please call the Senior Services Office at 749-1059, Monday through Friday, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. for additional information. We will arrange for a case manager from the Suffolk County Office for the Aging to visit you, evaluate your needs and refer you to the many available county and town senior programs. All of your information is held in strictest confidence by the case manager assigned to assist you.

Payment for services provided by this program is determined by income and subsidized on a sliding scale. The program is funded by the Suffolk County Office for the Aging.

01/10/12 6:00am

Cinema 114: Two movies this month: Wednesdays, January 11 and 25, 2:30 p.m. at the Senior Activity Center. See previews in today’s “Island Seniors.”

Dinner Bell: Luncheon and social hour every Monday and Friday from 12:15 to 1:30 p.m. in Fellowship Hall at the Presbyterian Church. Suggested donation $3. Call 749-0291 (extension 2104) to reserve.

The Poker Table: Thursdays at 2 p.m. at the Senior Activity Center. For more information, call 749-1059.

Senior Bowling: Tuesdays at 1:30 p.m. at the American Legion bowling lanes. $2 per game. Check with “Captain” Bob Rescigno at 749-1931.

Senior Mah-Jongg: Mondays and Fridays, 1:30 to 5 p.m. at the Senior Activity Center, play only. Sponsored by SCAC. For more information, call 749-1059.

SCAC: Annual meeting, Thursday, January 19, 9 a.m. at the Senior Activity Center.

Silver Circle: A social and activity program for older seniors every Wednesday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Senior Activity Center. Lunch and transportation included. Dues are $10 per week. Call Program Director Lois Charls at 749-0276 to sign up.

SISCA: No meetings until March 21.

Yoga for Seniors: Friday class, $5 fee, continues through Friday, January 27. Monday class, free, through Monday, January 30. Both classes are from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. at the Senior Activity Center. The Friday “Chair Yoga” class has been disbanded.

12/17/11 6:00pm

Our “finicky anti-faddist,” Dorothy Seiberling, returns to “Island Seniors” this week. She is back on the Rock after a brief vacation in Italy with her beloved mate Sidney Siber.

Just when you thought you might have a nice long holiday, free from lectures on words and grammar, along comes the finicky anti-faddist again. And what’s her hangup this time? Not a fad, but a misuse of a word. The word is “lay.”

If you keep your ears “peeled,” you’ll hear people say “I’m going to lay down on the bed.” The literal translation of that would tell you that they are laying a fluffy covering on the bed.

Of course, what they mean to say is “lie down,” but they got the tense (or the word) wrong.

“Lay” and “lie” are tricky. You can lie awake at night and think about what you want to lay away for your children.

You can lay down your arms and surrender, or you can lie down on the job and get fired.

Or you can just sing “How are things in Glocca-Morra, too-ray-ee-lay,” and hope the word wonks and grammar guardians will fade away.


Readers continue to call in their reports of grammatical lapses or other linguistic anomalies.

• From Brenda B. of Lake Drive: She is much peeved by the confusion between “who’s” and “whose” as in “Knock, knock: whose there?”

Most of us know that “who’s” is the contraction for “who is” and “whose” is the possessive form of the pronoun “who” as in “Whose woods these are I think I know.”*

So, Brenda, you and I would answer the knock on the door with “Who’s (who is) there?” All those replying “whose” are doomed from here to eternity.

• From Peter V. of Cobbetts Lane: A challenging question delivered in person aboard the 6:45 a.m. ferry to Greenport Saturday morning. How do we choose between the words “eager” and “anxious” to describe, for example, an anticipated event? My Random House unabridged dictionary cites two definitions that pertain to the question. The first describes a mental condition full of anxiety or distress; the second describes a mental condition that is earnestly desirous or eager.

So Peter, we could choose “anxious” when we are in mental distress or “anxious” when we are eager. But I still like your decision to use “anxious” when we are full of anxiety and “eager” when we are “earnestly desirous.” Perhaps, Peter, we should wait to  hear from the readers on this subject.

• From the Grumpy Grammarian: A local “woman of letters” recently said, “I feel badly about global warming.” I thought I detected a serious grammatical lapse, but I was wrong. In informal usage, “badly,” an adverb, becomes an adjective. I feel badly that I ever questioned your usage, dear friend.

I will continue to take your calls, at 749-0751. No grammatical lapse on Shelter Island should go unreported. I learn something new, thanks to you, every month. — M.B.

*This quote is from the Robert Frost poem, “Stopping By Woods on a Snowy Evening.”